My mom has been busy updating all her friends and she tells the story so much better than I can. So I'm going to put her updates here. Then when I'm in treatment and not up to updating, she'll update my blog for me.
November 8
Thank you my friends
To all my friends who have been remembering my daughter, praying for her and sending words of encouragement to her or me.
To my dance buddies who lift my spirits, My Saint Jerome Church family who keep us in prayer and those of you who have put Lisa on the prayer lists of your various churches and communities, My Carmelite Brothers and Sisters and my Buddhist friend who sends positive thoughts and energy .....thank you to all of you and anyone I may have over looked.
Lisa's cancer is much more invasive than first thought. The mammogram did not tell the whole story. The MRI and Second Ultra sound detected an eleven cm tumor which did not show up on the Mammogram. Density of tissue??? Position???? Who knows why. There is lymph node swelling so it appears the Cancer is at least Stage III. A PET test is to be done next week to determine if the cancer has spread.... where to and how much..............I am assured that your prayers are being heard as, even in the middle of what seems like the darkest days of my life since I made this, all too familiar, journey with my husband, there are always blessings. Lisa's continual upbeat attitude and courage can only be attributed to prayers offered on her behalf. A huge blessing came from her work place. Lisa is only two years at her job and her Short Term/ Long Term disability was minimal. She was fearful of how bills would be met if she had to take time off with out pay. She was called into her boss's office to be told her Grade Level was changed and her disability pay would be substantially increased. One terrible fear wiped off the table.
Another blessing that had to take a change in perspective on my part is that Lisa is in the hands of wonderful and capable AND very proactive Doctors. At first my thought was I can't stand to hear one more thing. But as bad as everything seems to be moving it could easily have been over looked........At what seemed a very small abnormality on a young woman's mammogram could have been put aside for "another year and let's see what happens"............Every step of the way it has been....."let's check just to be certain" and every test has yielded unfortunate surprises. No stone is being left unturned.
I am thankful for, and ask for, your continual prayers. It is going to be a long hard road which I pray will come to a happy end.
Nov 18
Thank You! Thank You! Thank You!!!
This is a repeat. Three people said they did not receive this last night. I am not certain what happened. So many of you were so supportive during this waiting period and the news is too good not to share even if it comes twice to some of you. Thank you to all of you for your hugs, love and especially your prayers last week.
All I can say is Praise be to God!
For all the prayers offered on behalf of Lisa I thank everyone!!! With grateful thanks to God I can tell you Lisa's PET scan showed the cancer has not metastasized. I am sitting here thinking how ironic to be thankful for Stage III cancer....But I remind myself Faith makes all things possible....not easy. It will be a long road for Lisa but it is doable. With the strength, prayers, love and support of our friends we will press on. We couldn't have gotten through the last few weeks with out everyone's love and encouragement and the grace of God.
I return to Northern VA on Wednesday to go with Lisa to meet with the Oncologist and speak about the treatment plan which will begin the week after Thanksgiving. Her Medi Port was placed on Friday and that Surgery went well.
Thank you again to everyone for the prayers offered thus far. Please do not abate as Lisa has a long way to go.
Love, Laura
November 21
Lisa's Doctor's Appointment
I had not intended to write again since I had let people know the Scan
gave good news and didn't want to overload everyone. But some folks have
emailed asking about Lisa's Wed appointment. If this is "too much
information" just feel free to delete. I believe we got the best news
we could get in a bad situation and feel SOOO much better. Not to say
this is good or going to be easy but it is doable.
The Doctor's appointment went well. The Doc's demeanor was to totally
different this week. She was very kind and personable last week and very
through and I liked her a lot. She had the MRI and went over it point by
point last week. But I got a different vibe from her on the two visits.
Wednesday she practically danced into the room with a big smile on her
face saying here are the results to the PET scan. She was obviously
delighted with the results. After talking with the Surgeon the day of
Lisa's surgery I do think there was concern.....the surgeon stated to me
Lisa was "not in a good place". I was very worried.
The scan showed no metastatic progression. The cancer has not
infiltrated the chest wall. It is, however, Multi-focal on the one side.
It appears two lymph nodes are swollen at this point. The tumors are
ER+(will respond well to hormone therapy) and HER2- (not aggressive)
which she said was good.
Treatment will start Dec 4 for Chemo followed by an injection of Nulasta
the day after. The TV commercials for that REALLY are true! It will help
her maintain blood counts and energy levels. She will be on Cytoxan and
Taxotere. The Doctor said at this point the plan is the surgery will
follow and radiation last. She did say there would be variables to
consider as Lisa goes along. The next step will depend on the response
of the tumor to the chemo.
It was so different from one week to the next I could only say WOW!
So, Lisa presses forward.
Again grateful thanks for all your concern and prayers. This has been
pretty stressful not only on Lisa, Bryan(my son) and me but the rest of
the family. Ann has been burning up 64 coming back and forth to help me
maintain some amount of sanity and my sisters-in-law in New York have
been in constant contact. From all of us Thank You !
Laura
December 9
Subject: One Down.........
Lisa started treatment
Dec 4......... One down
five to go.
Lisa got through her
first round of Chemo
with minimal problems.
She
remained active after
her treatment. Went to
Jazzercise Thursday
night
and out for dinner.
Friday she was in
Costco's getting in
groceries when
I called. She had a
friend over Friday
night. Saturday drove
Elizabeth
to a Girl Scout
camp-out in
Stafford so that was a three hour round trip
drive. When I spoke to
her Saturday she said
"I am really tired"
(gee, Ya think????)
Sunday she had side
effects from the
Nuelasta. Her knees
hurt so bad she
couldn't walk. The
doctor said take
Motrin and
rest.....A friend was
up there for the
weekend and was able to
help
out......Things could
have been far worse
Monday she was back at
work as planned...still
sore but moving. Today
she is feeling almost
normal.....drinking
loads of water and
hoping she
is not too tired for
Jazzercise tonight. .
Still sore but glad
the worst is over with
for this round. A bit
of nausea on Sunday but
manageable.
Lots of good tips
helped her cope
well.......drink a
gallon of water
every day, add ginger,
add lemon, keep
exercising, suck on
mints......take a mega
vitamin, and I think
all the personal support
was a huge incentive.
Family phone calls,
cards from all you well
wishers, co-workers
being supportive, it
has all been a huge
boost.
The prayer cover keeps
her spirits going in
the right direction.
Thanks to everyone for
every thing.
Effects will be
cumulative as time
goes on but she is
ready to face it
as it comes.
I will go up for
Christmas and stay
through her next
treatment which
starts on the 29th
December. She wants
to work on the 30th
and 31st so I can help
get meals if she comes
home exhausted.
Have a Blessed
Christmas everyone if
I don't see some of you
between now
and then.
Laura